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Questions to Answer and Ask Before you Marry (Part 2)

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This article is a continuation of part 1 on questions to ask and answer before you get married. If you have not seen it, I encourage you to because it's a progression and I am continuing on point 6. Laura and Ken's responses to the sample questions are not ideal.  Before moving on with your sweetheart, you must have a series of conversations to ensure you're both on the same page regarding your future together. There is no future in your love without agreement on important issues. The key thing is to listen and be Here are crucial questions to ask before you say “I Do”: 1.        How do you handle conflicts, and what are your expectations of how we will deal with them? Laura: I believe conflicts are natural in any relationship, and it's important to address them with respect and empathy. I value open communication, active listening, and finding win-win solutions. My expectation is that we approach conflicts as an opportunity for growth and work toget...

Questions to Answer and Ask Before you Marry (Part 1)

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  Before moving on with your sweetheart, you must have a series of conversations to ensure you're both on the same page regarding your future together. There is no future in your love without agreement on important issues. The key thing is to listen and be Here are crucial questions to ask before you say “I Do”: 1.        What is your stance on marriage, and what does it mean to you? Sample Response: Laura: To me, marriage is a lifelong commitment and partnership. It signifies the depth of love, trust, and mutual support between two individuals. It's about building a strong foundation, growing together, and facing life's challenges as a team. Ken: I share the same view. Marriage is a sacred bond that symbolizes the unity of two souls. It's about creating a safe and loving space where we can grow individually and as a couple while also working towards a shared future. 2.        What is your dream marriage? Share t...

Truth in your Relationships

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One time the washer needed some maintenance, and in the process, I accidentally dropped the cleaner into one of the openings. I felt really terrible about it. I could either keep quiet about it or say it. But I chose to tell those concerned without hiding anything; of course, they were mad about it, but I was freed from guilt. Each time you open your mouth to speak, you are either telling the truth or lying. I encourage you to choose to speak all the truth in your relationships. Truth brings freedom to your life and your marriage. Let only truth reign in you and through you. Your words are being tested for accuracy by your listeners to see the coherence in your thoughts and actions. Your listeners can trust you more as you speak the truth continually. This will bond you, strengthening your relationship. What are you ashamed to tell your spouse about yourself? The first people on earth, Adam and Eve, were husband and wife. They were naked with each other until they learned good and evil...